the-unpopular-opinions:

ok so me and a couple of my friends were talking and one of then said “I’d rather date a “player” type of guy because if i fall for a nice guy, usually im not the first or only one he’s been nice to. Like he said ‘i love you’ to a lot of girls and i dont really feel special, you know? when i date a player, i feel like i can change him.” do you guys get it? Honestly i don’t agree with her, i’d rather go for the nice guy because i dont want to get hurt, ya know? I was just wondering how many people agree with my friend. tell me here: http://itsh4na.tumblr.com/
http://itsh4na.tumblr.com/

Some people, not just girls, seem to love people who treat them like shit. They like the drama because its been fed to them. The romance movies, soap operas, there’s always a problem coz otherwise there would be no story since that is its focus. When you’re in a stable relationship, to these people, it is boring..its not exciting. I really think its about drama. They love to complain of a broken heart, have serious ups and downs like the relationships they see on tv..and yes, people do have the mentality of “I can change him”. No, you can’t. Only he can do that, which most of em won’t.

the-unpopular-opinions:

ok so me and a couple of my friends were talking and one of then said “I’d rather date a “player” type of guy because if i fall for a nice guy, usually im not the first or only one he’s been nice to. Like he said ‘i love you’ to a lot of girls and i dont really feel special, you know? when i date a player, i feel like i can change him.” do you guys get it? Honestly i don’t agree with her, i’d rather go for the nice guy because i dont want to get hurt, ya know? I was just wondering how many people agree with my friend. tell me here: http://itsh4na.tumblr.com/

http://itsh4na.tumblr.com/

Some people, not just girls, seem to love people who treat them like shit. They like the drama because its been fed to them. The romance movies, soap operas, there’s always a problem coz otherwise there would be no story since that is its focus. When you’re in a stable relationship, to these people, it is boring..its not exciting. I really think its about drama. They love to complain of a broken heart, have serious ups and downs like the relationships they see on tv..and yes, people do have the mentality of “I can change him”. No, you can’t. Only he can do that, which most of em won’t.

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  1. theshieldandthesword said: Your friend’s logic is downright terrible in my opinion.
  2. buttmunchersanon said: insecure girls ALWAYS look for the guy they can “change” and it never works. there’s no reason for it except for feeding their ego and making them feel useful
  3. delectable-rapscallion said: Players are hard to get?
  4. mysalvationiscreated said: I don’t like douche bags. I’ve never understood any of that.
  5. mufasainthesky said: This actually makes sense. “Players” are a challenge, which makes it a little funner. Nice guys bore me. When I want a long term relationship, I’ll look for a nice guy.
  6. imbooping said: But see with nice guys, you might not be their first, but you could always be their last. :)
  7. thedangerousautumn said: that’s such weird reasoning
  8. insignificat said: No it’s cause douche bags are more exciting and make themselves seem unattainable at first so when you finally get them it’s awesome except that they’re a douche but still. Nice guys are just like “why don’t you love me :((” and that’s just annoying
  9. wintercoffin said: trying to change someone is a bad idea, especially if the guy is an asshole
  10. amekuudere said: I feel that many girls who decide to date “bad boys” do have this (often incorrect) mindset - that they can ‘change’ them.
  11. blowfish-love said: funny. My friend dated a “nice guy”. He broke up with her two months into it and turned into a “player”. (and no he wasn’t faking the nice guy part… I knew him well before they met and went out)
  12. tenjitosspot said: lol. no. the nice guy might be waiting to say it, and you would be the first. you cant change someone, grow up.
  13. jessandwarrenforever said: Seeing as no one can change the guys behavior but himself, and that’s not likely to happen easily. Nope I don’t agree with her. Nice guys all the way.
  14. enter-the-fossa said: i feel sorry for your friends
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